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Celebrating International Women’s Day at Tribe Porty

Each year at Tribe Porty, International Women’s Day begins the same way: with the gathering of women. But no two years feel alike. Each brings its own energy, shaped by the voices in the room. Our hosts have been public speakers, authors, creatives and poets. All who openly invite us into deeper thought, shared understanding and genuine companionship.

I’ll admit, on the surface, I sometimes find the international marking of days like this overly constructed and lacking substance. But what I really mean is the big-business version of it. The empty policy statements, the strategic planning box-ticking, the performative nods toward equality.

That’s not what we do here.

At Tribe Porty, we craft our International Women’s Day event with curiosity and thoughtful intent. It is less about promotion and more about participation. Less about optics and more about collaboration. It is, fundamentally, about gathering.

As Gloria Steinem reminds us:

“The story of women’s struggle for equality belongs to no single feminist nor to any one organisation but to the collective efforts of all who care about human rights.”

The IWD 2026 Give To Gain Campaign encourages a mindset of generosity and collaboration. When people, organisations, and communities give generously, opportunities and support for women increase. Giving is not a subtraction, it’s intentional multiplication.

Nothing is off the table

We are hosting International Women’s Day in collaboration with  ‘Have you frozen your eggs yet?‘ podcast hosts, Louise Mason and Kelly Crichton. We’re gathering and inviting women to bring the unspoken things. The awkward questions. The inherited shame. The impossible expectations. Nothing is off the table.

For many women, the journey of knowing ourselves involves reclaiming parts of our identity that were shamed, silenced, or sexualised too early. It means meeting the shadow. Those internalised voices that whisper: don’t be too much, don’t take up space, don’t be messy.

We’ve invited poets to close the evening, because poetry slips past our defences and reaches places policy and productivity never can. Our invitation was simple: send us a poem about womanhood.

“The greedier the Gods, the more of us they’ll send to the gallows. We can’t win with our estranged sisters. We can’t protect all our daughters from a darker tomorrow if we don’t light our torches today.

Our misguided betrayers are full of hate. They are in pain. They ate too many lies, each bloated belly waits to hatch and spread its poison, to silence lives. There is nothing worse than knowing it could be different.” – Naomi Head, excerpt from Daughters of Eve.

When selecting the poems, we were struck,and at times overwhelmed, by how many were riddled with sadness. They spoke of everyday injustices, quiet threats, inherited fear, and the sharp edges that can accompany simply existing as a woman.

And yet, running through them all was a golden thread: friendship. Gathering. Holding one another up.

Creating Space

As much as we want to create space for women to express their deepest fears and challenge the mechanics of the social systems forcefully built around us, we also want to celebrate the profound bond we share and the gentle beauty of womanhood.

Women do this instinctively for one another. We steady each other’s nervous systems, we widen each other’s worlds. We whisper, “You’re okay. You’re safe. You’re beautiful.” When thinking about self reclamation, Dani couldn’t have worded it better: “It often happens in the presence of other women. Because there is something alchemical that happens when women gather.”

An Invitation

You are warmly invited to join us at Tribe Porty on March 5th to come together in marking International Women’s Day. When you arrive, you’ll be invited to anonymously add something to our Rumination Box. Nothing is off the table. This can be anything: an awkward question you’ve been asked, an inappropriate comment, a thought on surviving womanhood. What are those thoughts in your head you are scared to say outloud?

Louise and Kelly will pull from the box throughout the evening to spark conversation, invite reflections, and open the floor to you, our audience. Expect a fun, relaxed, and welcoming atmosphere. Bring your own snacks and drinks, come as you are, and be ready to listen, share, laugh, and most importantly connect. Click here to book your ticket.

“We are lights upon the water; we are a different point of view, we go disembodied into night and arrive at the morning smiling. We are trying to, remembering our dreams, to remember our feelings, for next time, we are how it is to feel warm.” – Alice Keeling, excerpt from Women.

As always we’d love to connect and hear your thoughts, let us know what you think and what you want to see more of at Tribe Porty.

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