Time spent together

Feels like Christmas

Over the past couple of months I’ve hopped up and down the country for various family events, some sad, some happy, some both at the same time. Time was spent catching up, long walks and gathering over big tables of home made food. Something that struck me during this time was the repeated sentence, ‘Blimey, doesn’t it feel like Christmas.’ No presents, no pressure to perform, no decorations or elaborate table settings but still that sacred, lovely christmassy feeling.

The core of that feeling came from the gathering and shared experiences we had together. The slightly knackered feeling after a long walk in the countryside followed by a big cup of tea. Shared laughter over sea dipping and silly games. There was something grounding about being together so close to Christmas without the usual seasonal expectations, as though stripping everything back made the sentiment more obvious. It reminded me that so much of what we chase during the festive period is already there, tucked into the ordinary moments, if we take time to notice them.

Supporting our highstreet

During one of the trips we also spent some time along Totnes highstreet. I prefaced this trip by declaring ‘I hate shopping’, but was reassured that I would like this one…Whilst we’ve all gotten used to the same line up of empty shops, vape shops and chain cafes, Totnes is entirely different. It has an abundance of independent cafes, book shops, homeware, it was dreamy. The sort of place where you feel yourself slowing down, actually wanting to peer into windows, wander inside, speak to the people behind the counters.

Even the local market was full to the brim of local traders and makers. I couldn’t help but notice that even on a wet, rainy Friday afternoon the high street was bustling. I can’t imagine how busy the footfall is during tourist season. There’s an energy that comes from seeing a town that still feels genuinely lived in and loved, rather than hollowed out by sameness.

On top of this, some light research shows that the town is consistently praised not just for its drive for independence but for cultivating a community through collaboration, arts, sustainability, and community-led projects. I think it makes sense that a diverse high street that champions the local economy only keeps the high street alive and in turn looks after our local economy. When people feel a sense of ownership or belonging to their high street, it becomes more than somewhere to rush through. It becomes somewhere to spend time, to gather, to support each other’s livelihoods.

“I think it’s a place where people still really appreciate the little things, and I think that the more people support it, the more we can maintain that, and still feel that lovely community.” 

Coming home

Whilst inspired, I couldn’t help but compare this to Portobello. Whilst we’re not at the same size of high street, as a community we too desire this way of thinking and living. The only way we can encourage these ideals further as consumers is of course by ditching the chains and shopping locally not just this Christmas season, but throughout the year. It’s easy to assume that buying one coffee or one gift locally doesn’t do much, but the ripple effect is enormous. These tiny choices keep doors open and in turn keep the character of a place intact.

During a recent conversation with Traade, I remarked on how inspiring I found their drive for events and community projects, and we both noted that to thrive shops need to be so much more than a shop in today’s economy. We need to give reasons for people to come into our spaces, whether it be a simple hello from a familiar face or to attend a creative workshop or if you’re a bit bonkers a neighbourhood ultra. The high street becomes a social space again when businesses treat it as a place for people, not just transactions. 

Tribe Porty’s Gift Guide

This year, we’ve decided to curate our Gift Guide around experiences that not only fuel our local high street but bring us together with our nearest and dearest. Because at the end of the day, that’s what we remember. The time spent together and the shared moments, the feeling that we’re part of something slightly bigger than ourselves.

You can read the full guide by clicking here

And… something delicious is coming

All this talk of gathering, sharing and supporting our local community has perfect timing, because we’re about to launch something very close to our hearts: the very first Tribe Porty Cookbook.

This little book has grown out of years of shared lunches, potlucks, leftovers reinvented, and those conversations that happen when people sit around a table together. What started as a simple idea, turned into a true community project. Alice lovingly gathered recipes and shaped the book and Beverley filled the pages with beautiful illustrations.  And of course, the Tribe community contributed the real heart of it: the meals they make, the stories behind them, and the generosity that has always been part of our culture here.

The cookbook celebrates exactly what this blog is about: the everyday ways we care for each other, the creativity found in good food, and the small choices that keep our community thriving. It’s full of simple, reliable recipes, especially the kind that make great leftovers for tomorrow’s lunch, and we can’t wait to share it with you. 

Thanks for reading,

Alice

As always we’d love to connect and hear your thoughts. As we look ahead to the next 10 years, we’d love to know: What would you love to see more of in the future of Tribe Porty?

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